HOLIDAY MAIL GUIDELINES

Before sending seasonal mail, please review our holiday guidelines. Specific dates, themes, or messages may affect when and where letters can be shared.

We see a higher concentration of mail during certain holidays, but we aim to distribute letters all year long.

After the postmark deadline please keep messages holiday neutral. Decorating your letters in holiday colors or holiday stationary is fine as long as the message is neutral.

HOLIDAY-THEMED MAIL DEADLINES

If you’d like to send holiday-themed mail, please follow the deadlines below to ensure it arrives on time.

VALENTINE'S DAY

POSTMARK BY JANUARY 14

Active Duty or Veterans • Kindness, care, encouragement

If you're writing to someone currently serving, use "Dear Service Member." For those no longer in uniform, address your letter to "Dear Veteran." Valentine's Day is a chance to share appreciation and kindness—not romantic gestures. Keep your message warm, supportive, and focused on reminding them they are appreciated, remembered, and valued.

ARMED FORCES DAY 

POSTMARK BY APRIL 16

Active Duty Only • Respect and recognition

Armed Forces Day honors those actively serving in the U.S. military across all branches. These are the men and women currently carrying out missions at home and abroad. Use "Dear Service Member" to recognize their sacrifice and daily commitment. Your letter should reflect respect, strength, and support—avoiding holiday cheer or general sentiments.

MEMORIAL DAY 

POSTMARK BY APRIL 25

Active Duty or Veterans • Day of Remembrance

When writing, please do not say "Happy Memorial Day" in your letters. This is a solemn time to honor those who have died while serving.

INDEPENDENCE DAY

POSTMARK BY JUNE 4

Active Duty or Veterans • Patriotism and freedom

Use "Dear Service Member" for active duty or "Dear Veteran" for former military. Highlight appreciation for their role in protecting liberty. Stay away from clichés or political themes; instead, share genuine gratitude for their part in preserving our freedoms. Uplifting, patriotic language is welcome when used respectfully.

NATIONAL DAY OF THE DEPLOYED • OCTOBER 26

POSTMARK BY SEPTEMBER 26

Active Duty Only • Support from home

Use “Dear Service Member” for anyone currently deployed. This day recognizes the sacrifice of those serving away from home and the families they leave behind. Your letter should express appreciation for their courage, resilience, and ongoing mission. Keep your message grounded in support, encouragement, and pride—avoiding political commentary or holiday-style greetings.

VETERANS DAY • NOVEMBER 11

POSTMARK BY OCTOBER 11

Veterans Only • Respect and recognition

Veterans Day honors all who no longer serve in the U.S. Armed Forces—past, not present. It’s a time to recognize their service, sacrifices, and continued impact. Use “Dear Veteran” to address your letter.

THANKSGIVING • NOVEMBER 26

POSTMARK BY OCTOEBR 26

Active Duty or Veterans • Gratitude and reflection

Use "Dear Service Member" or "Dear Veteran" depending on the recipient. Share what you're thankful for and how their service has touched your life. Simple, heartfelt thanks are always appreciated.

CHRISTMAS / HOLIDAY SEASON • MONTH OF DECEMBER

POSTMARK BY NOVEMBER 25

Active Duty or Veterans • Hope and encouragement

Use “Dear Service Member” for those currently serving or “Dear Veteran” for those who have served. Share winter-themed encouragement and support without naming specific holidays like Christmas, Hanukkah, or Kwanzaa. We do not know the religious preference of the recipient or what holidays they celebrate. Instead, focus on warmth, appreciation, and kindness.

Your support and patriotism has helped strengthen the resolve of our Marines. It’s people like you that keep the Marines motivated and proud to serve our country. Please know that your support has significantly raised the morale of our Marines.

Captain Doug Cullins
Hurricane Point, Ar Ramadi, Iraq
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